Family mediation is a facilitated conversation in which an impartial mediator helps people explore options. The mediator does not impose a decision or act as either person’s solicitor. A MIAM is an initial meeting to explain mediation and assess whether it is suitable. A mediated understanding may need separate legal steps to become binding.
Write three columns: mediator, each participant, and independent legal adviser. Put “facilitates discussion” under mediator, “chooses whether to agree” under participant, and “advises on an individual’s legal position” under adviser. Add one question you would ask each.
Fictional couple A has a productive discussion about a weekly routine. They write down a proposal. Identify what has happened, what has not yet happened, and whether a court-approved order is needed for their goals. Repeat for a financial proposal after divorce. Avoid treating either conversation as automatically binding.
Reflection: What practical condition would help you take part meaningfully? Safety, accessibility, interpretation and power balance all matter.
Educational information, not legal advice. GOV.UK mediation.
